Source: Stevemagness
The line between developing resilience through genuine struggle and performing that struggle for an audience has erased. What once required private effort now trades on social validation. This shifts how people calibrate difficulty: the metric becomes "postable" rather than "transformative," which favors activities that look hard rather than feel hard, or that produce evidence rather than capability. The consumer attention economy has made authenticity a commodity. People optimizing for documented growth often optimize away from the unglamorous, iterative, failure-rich work that produces it.